Sunday, 24 August 2025

The Art of Being a Trustworthy Friend: Reflections on Trust, Privacy, and True Support




Friendship is a nuanced, layered experience. We often celebrate friends for their fun company, shared adventures, or the comfort they bring in everyday life. But what truly defines a dependable and trustworthy friend goes beyond the surface. It’s about holding space for each other’s vulnerabilities, respecting privacy, and being someone your friends can count on when it matters most.

Friday, 8 August 2025

The Power of Manifestation: How I Spoke My Dreams to Reality

 

Large Photo: The Photo on my vision board that I took with Anne on 9th March 2022
Insert Photo: The Two appointment Letters from Stanbic and ESAMI respectively


Oprah Winfrey once said, “You get in life what you have the courage to ask for.”
I have come to believe this deeply — not just as an abstract idea, but as a living truth I’ve experienced over and over in my own life. I also strongly believe in the power of the tongue and the power of manifestation.

For years, I dreamed of working in Stanbic Bank. Not just anywhere in the bank — and definitely not in the IT department, even though my background was in technology. I wanted to be on the business side, shaping solutions, influencing strategy, and making a real difference for customers.

The problem? I couldn’t see how it could ever happen. It felt like an oxymoron — “techie” but no desire for a traditional tech role in a bank. Still, the dream wouldn’t let me go...

The Art of Being a Trustworthy Friend: Reflections on Trust, Privacy, and True Support

Friendship is a nuanced, layered experience. We often celebrate friends for their fun company, shared adventures, or the comfort they bring ...